It's been a week since I moved in with my host family and while things haven't exactly been crazy (because I have infinitely more free time than I have ever had at AU), it has definitely been an interesting and somewhat humbling experience thus far. Tomorrow also marks the end of my first week as a student at the University of Jordan (UJ). I'm not quite sure how to assemble all of the observations/impressions/reflections that are floating around in my head into something cohesive, so here is a list:
1) My host family is truly wonderful. My host mom, Bashira, has especially made me feel at home (and never, ever let's me go hungry for more than three minutes at a time). It is, however, really strange to plop down in someone else's home and try to fit into their existing family dynamics and routine while trying not to commit any cultural faux paux. I've been in new situations before, whether going to camp or college or what-have-you, but each of those times I've been adapting to a new place along with a group of people who are all going through that same process, so living here is completely different from anything I've done before.
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| View from my bedroom window on my first night |
2) The other thing that makes living here really strange is the language barrier. While my family members can all speak some degree of English, ranging from a little to practically fluent, they always speak in Arabic unless they are addressing me directly. This is definitely a plus for learning the language (the reason I'm here after all) but, as one of my American classmates put it, makes it feel like I'm living in a foreign language film without subtitles. Lots of nodding and smiling has been involved.
3) It is cold here, really cold. But not in the way Wisconsin winters are cold. Daytime temperatures are hovering in the mid to high 40s, but it has rained every day since I got here, which make the chill feel more penetrating. Also, the buildings just aren't heated and insulated as well as they are at home, so I never really warm up. Being this cold is a very new sensation for me.
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| More from my bedroom window |
4) Jordan is the fourth most water poor country in the world and almost always on the verge of a water crisis, so my eco-friendly tendencies have been in heaven here! Water is never wasted and all of the newer toilets have really awesome dual-flush settings. Electricity is also really expensive, so all of the power outlets in my room have little switches to turn them on and off so power doesn't drain out when they aren't being used. SO COOL.
5) My three-year-old host nephew, Ali, speaks amazing English--probably even better than many three-year-olds in the States--and makes my attempts to communicate in Arabic look like a joke. Seriously, it's a little depressing.
6) I'm constantly surprised by the way certain aspects of Western consumer culture have permeated society here. Some friends and I went to City Mall last weekend to pick up some necessities and it was like stepping into any suburban shopping mall in the United States, complete with a Gap, movie theater, and food court.
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| Three-story KFC ad in City Mall |
7) The UJ campus is GORGEOUS. I didn't know so much green could exist in the Middle East. The agriculture program even grows food right on campus for the cafeteria. Going to a school with 35,000 students is definitely a big change from comparatively itty-bitty American University.
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| Early morning on the UJ campus |
So far my classes have been going well. In addition to taking Arabic (both Modern Standard and dialect), I'm taking two classes called "America and the Arabs" and "Islam in the Modern Context." I'm really excited because I think the content of these courses will dovetail nicely with my experiences in real-world Amman. Tomorrow, I get the results of my Arabic placement exam and in sha allah (God willing) I did well enough to stay in the advanced level!